You Say He’s Just A Friend

Just Ask Ariel

Has being friends with an ex, ever cause problems in your current relationship? Check out when Sharice’s current boyfriend, Kevin and her ex, Jamar, finally tell each other what’s really on their minds.

Teaser (Excerpt)

When Kevin saw Jamar enter the chapel, he politely excused himself and made a beeline straight for him.

“Can I talk to you for a minute?” Kevin asked.

Jamar followed him outside and away from the two men who were chatting away about married life.

“So what can I do for you?”

“For one, you could tell me exactly what is going on with you and Sharice. I couldn’t get a straight answer out of her, so I thought I would come to the source.”

“Well, if you think that Sharice is hiding something from you, maybe you should ask her again,” he replied, smiling a little.

“Look, I know it was weird in the…

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