Part 2 – Dear Black Men: I was made to love you

“We accept the love we think we deserve.” – Stephen Chbosky Interracial dating is something that I have never discussed outside of my close circle or with men I am romantically interested in. But since I pride myself on being as transparent as possible with my writing, I knew this was something that I needed … Continue reading Part 2 – Dear Black Men: I was made to love you

Tales from the flirty 30 diaries: Ariel in Wonderland

I can truly say I'm enjoying this new season in my life, which I have lovingly refer to as: "the flirty 30's." To me, the flirty 30's are all about embracing my flyness and sexiness. And last Halloween, I did just that. I remember people chuckling when I told them I was going as  Alice … Continue reading Tales from the flirty 30 diaries: Ariel in Wonderland

Check yourself, before you wreck yourself

How often do you check yourself? Let me be clear on what I mean by, “check yourself.”  I don’t mean getting checked for std’s or performing self-breast exam, which are also important; I mean, how often do you stop and say, “I’m trippin, let me re-evaluate how I’m handling this situation.” I think I probably … Continue reading Check yourself, before you wreck yourself

The perks of being a wallflower

I know what you're probably thinking, and no, this blog is not about an awkward teenager, who is trying to deal with his best friend's suicide, even though I can say without hesitation, that "The Perks Of Being A Wallflower" is officially one of my favorite movies. This blog is about me, and the new life that … Continue reading The perks of being a wallflower

5 Signs you’re dealing with a hater

  Tonight, I'm going to share with you five sure ways to spot a hater, because sometimes, you just want to be sure that it really is them trippin' and not you. I overheard a very interesting, or better yet annoying conversation while at dinner tonight. I was sitting at the bar next to three young men … Continue reading 5 Signs you’re dealing with a hater