5 Signs you’re dealing with a hater

  Tonight, I'm going to share with you five sure ways to spot a hater, because sometimes, you just want to be sure that it really is them trippin' and not you. I overheard a very interesting, or better yet annoying conversation while at dinner tonight. I was sitting at the bar next to three young men … Continue reading 5 Signs you’re dealing with a hater

Laughter is good for the soul

I wasn't sure what I wanted to write about today, but then while texting with a friend, he made a joke that I don't really think he knew I'd get. It was a reference to the hit television show, Sienfeld.  And as I laughed at his joke about not giving me any soup, because he … Continue reading Laughter is good for the soul

A Kiss Is A Kiss, Except When It Isn’t

When doesn't a kiss count? I had a very interesting conversation on the topic regarding the legitimacy of the "drunken kiss". The debate was whether or not the kiss should be counted as a real kiss or should it be disregarded as though it never happened, since it took place under the "influence." Seeing as … Continue reading A Kiss Is A Kiss, Except When It Isn’t

5 Sayings That Annoy Me

Has anyone ever said something to you that just didn't make sense, even though when they said it, they looked at you like you were supposed to agree, because that's just how life is? For example, you're having a bad day, and their advice to you is, hold your head up, the sun will come … Continue reading 5 Sayings That Annoy Me

Close Encounters of the Unexpected Kind

Everyone has heard and used the phrase, “It’s a small world” at some point and time in their lives. And I feel like the world gets even smaller when it comes to dating, because at some point and time we’ve all run into someone we’ve dated, and their new romantic interest.  This can be a … Continue reading Close Encounters of the Unexpected Kind

My First Love

I have never been really good at writing poetry, but a very good friend gave me some advice last year, and told me to start by writing about what I know and love. And for those of you who know me well, then this will make sense. And for those of you who don't, after … Continue reading My First Love


Maria sat at the crowded bar sipping on an apple martini, hoping it would calm her nerves.  First dates always made her nervous. “Excuse me, is anyone sitting here?” Maria turned to see a stunning brunette performing a balancing act with a purse in one hand and a glass in the other. It looked as … Continue reading Coffee

It Comes Naturally

As Frank approached the diner, he heard a loud commotion coming from a side alley. He slowed down to take a look and saw a woman being mugged by two young boys who couldn’t have been more than sixteen. Then woman began to scream for help as the two vandals took off and were running towards him. Seeing as how his new persona, Franklin Jones, had recently resigned from the secret service due to being shot in the field and tired of being on desk duty, he crouched low and prepared to tackle the teenagers as they ran past him. And somehow he managed to grab the one carrying the purse, and swung him into the brick wall of the building. He struggled to get free as he screamed profanities as he watched his friend leave him behind. But his slender frame was no match for the six foot four and two hundred twenty pound body restraining him.